While doing this activity, it was apparent that it was much easier to point out our flaws then choose positive attributes.
I know I did this because I'm too hard on myself. I felt almost guilty when trying to say good things about myself, however finding a negative came instantly.
However, I think that may only have been my problem. I'm too critical by nature.
Ugh, this is the hard part
Positive Qualities
Hardworking
I have a work ethic that doesn't seem to stop. I can't stand not having things done and don't allow myself to stop until the work is done. As bad as this sounds, it is actually a good thing because it allows me to get things in on time and in the end the rewards seem to balance out with the work.
Reliable
If I say I am going to do something, I am going to go out of my way to get it done.
Adaptable
I am usually able to be happy wherever I am. I tend to make the best of what around me (even if I complain a lot...)
Motivated
I am naturally motivated to work & get going .
Creative
If I wasn't creative I couldn't function. I draw, paint, play piano by ear, and design like crazy.
Now onto the easy part
Negative Qualities
Competitive
This has always been a problem for me. Even though I hate it, I always try to be the best. Everything has to be perfect. {Such an annoying & embarrassing quality.}
Stubborn
Stubborn as a mule. That's me. I tend to stand by my point of view unless I can be proven wrong. I tend to dig my feet into things and refuse to budge once I've got my mind set.
Argumentative
I tend to start arguments on things I don't agree on, especially if it's something I feel strongly about.This is probably due to the fact I question everything. I crave answers and reasons.
Disorganized
As much as I try and keep everything organized, I find myself becoming disorganized.
Things that are important to me (my DVD collection, my book shelf, & my immense collection of Doctor Who merchandise) are always in their exact spot, however, when it comes to everything else in my life, it is complete chaos. But I suppose that's how I work. I try to manage my time (never works out as I want) and keep my notes organized, however by the end of the semester I find my notes to be scattered wherever they will fit.
Defensive
I really hate this quality - I get defensive. I'm so scared of rejection/failure that I get defensive when people give me negative feedback or question something I do. However, if I am comfortable with the person, or really truly value their input, I tend to not be as defensive.
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There. Now wasn't that fun?
Now that I've had an honest look at myself I'm going to go drink some tea.
Sunday, April 5, 2009
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